Aug

17

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In Memoriam, Continued

One of the things I miss the most is that Danette was the only aunt or uncle living close-by my kids.  She babysat them, and read to them and helped build things when they were small.  For more than a decade, she cut their hair, took them on outings, came over for dinner and games and watched movies with them.

She told the kids not to talk back to their mother, told them to always seek God’s will and helped in general in our efforts to develop character in their lives.  Even after she moved a distance away and we saw less of her, she never forgot birthdays, and she was always their favorite person to see when she could come and visit.

At Danette’s memorial service in June, only one member of the family felt like speaking to the attendees.  Here is what my ten-year-old daughter wrote down to say about her aunt (and then, she stood up and read it all even though she had been crying):

Hello, I’m here to speak for my Aunt.  She was a nice, kind-hearted soul.  She was always the closest relative my family had.  She was always helping us.  She was my closest Aunt.

I think everyone in this room knows she is saved, so she isn’t really gone, she is here with us now!  Even though we can’t see her it doesn’t mean we can’t believe in her presence.  And we can believe God’s presence too.  My favorite Bible verse is Romans 8:28: For all things work together for good to them that love God.

I think that what this means here is that it stopped her suffering.  And now she is with God.  And we will join her one day if we all believe in Christ Jesus our Savior.  “If you love something, set it free” — she’s praising Jesus Christ and loving every second of it!  And she’s waiting for our arrival.

My Mom used to say it helps you stop crying if you wipe your eyes.  This is something that might not help.  But what’s important is that she is happy — Family, Friends, to my Aunt Danette, I say Amen, God be with You.

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Aug

16

By Tammi

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In Memoriam: Danette Mossman-Tucker

I’ve been intending to write this post for quite awhile, and now I shall at least attempt a beginning…

I was missing Danette more yesterday than ever before, remembering a woman who was not only my relative by marriage, but my longtime dear friend and true “big sister.”  She completely opened up her heart to me with sincerity and warmth, just because I was her brother’s new wife.

It didn’t take long for us to discover that we were kindred spirits, with similar backgrounds and scads of mutual interests.  While neither of us was perfect, we truly grew a bond that weathered some awful life storms, and saw the best in each other even when we were exasperated with some of the worst — and I very much miss her laughter and wisdom and perspective and companionship.

Danette was the only member of the family, on either side, who was present for the birth of all three of my children.  Kevin wasn’t even attendant at Aislynn’s birth, due to a misunderstanding about the emergency surgery, so Danette was the first person besides medical personnel to hold our Dolly.

To be continued…

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Aug

12

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A Grumpy Post — Church Signs

I just found part of this post in my Draft file, dated June 8, 2010.  What the heck, I’m grumpy today, so no title change!  I’ve spent so much time in this mood for the past two months, that I’m well on my way to being Maxine* when I grow up; however, I’ll still like children. (*Hallmark Shoebox Greeting cards)

And on to my original gripe… the word “ain’t” should never appear in a church sign, nor should God and Walmart ever be compared in such a locale (or, maybe ever!).   Yet it did, and they were, just a few miles up the road.  I had to pass the sign multiple times a week, and I considered vandalism for the first time in my life.  I figured neon orange and bright purple paint would clash nicely with the pale red brick of the church building.

By and large, I hate church signs.  Danette used to call them “God in a box signs,” and her exact meaning for that wasn’t a commendation.  When I heave a ginormous sigh while staring out the passenger window while we’re driving along, my husband knows it’s usually caused by a humdinger of an “encouraging message” that I’ve just viewed.

Whatever the intent, much of the time those messages make Christians sound

– uneducated (a la saying that God ain’t Walmart)

– sanctimonious (I love my holy Christian life!)

– judgmental (”Stop, drop and roll” doesn’t work in Hell)

…and I’ll just stop with those examples.  But I’m certain that some of them can be classified as “using the name of the Lord in vain.”  I think they offend His divine sensibilities.

I must here say that our own Calvary Chapel Alpharetta sign has never given me offense, nor have any Methodist churches in the area.  Simple scripture references, announcements, sweet quotes about daddies and daughters, and holiday references are the rule.  It makes me wonder if the Methodists all have a designated person to do their signs, with as much good sense and love for people as have our pastors who tend the CCA sign.

I also wonder why some churches continue to allow the same “sign people” to inflict their ministry on the rest of the populace.  Because, I guarantee you, in some churches it’s considered a calling, a gifting, or a ministry, and someone just knows that the Lord put that message on their hearts.

It’s not our job to advertise for God, but to be living extensions of Him that influence the people around us.

I’ll end this now.  :~)

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Jun

2

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2 Corinthians 12:9

The apostle Paul wrote to the Corinthian church that the Lord had told him “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.”

I’m often grateful that my weakness means a manifestation of His strength is imminent.

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May

21

By Tammi

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I cannot “do” this day

Family is coming in and out of town.  I had to cancel the last two weeks of our school year.  I’m not going to be able to help with preparations for VBS.  I haven’t had a decent night’s sleep in over a week, nor many good naps — and sleep is vital to my health.  I’m just getting over a sinus infection and I’m exhausted and I’ve been losing my voice for over a week.  I’m watching my husband stress, grieve, plan and do, lose sleep, and cough… Today it’s all hands on-deck to move my SIL… I’m sad and angry and resentful and grateful at the same time…  I’m watching my kids learn how to handle their first major loss/grief in life…

Have I mentioned that I hate waiting for someone to die?

Physically, mentally, emotionally — I feel I am walking a tightrope in all areas, and in my own strength I’ll fall and hurt myself soon.  The only option I have is to place myself in my Lord’s hands and do what He gives me strength to do — and then stay in bed and rest all day tomorrow.  I will also infuse much worship into the day to keep my focus and priorities straight.

Holy Uncreated One
Your beauty fills the skies
But the glory of Your majesty
Is the mercy in Your eyes

Worthy Uncreated One
From heaven to earth come down
You laid aside Your royalty
To wear the sinner’s crown

O Great God, be glorified
Our lives laid down
Your’s magnified
O Great God, be lifted high
There is none like You

Jesus, Savior, God’s own son
Risen, reigning Lord
Sustainer of the Universe
By the power of Your Word

And when we see Your matchless face
In speechless awe we’ll stand
And there we’ll bow with grateful hearts
Unto the Great I Am

~Chris Tomlin

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May

4

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Now I’m the mother of two teenagers…

Thirteen years ago, our second son was born.  Brendon’s entrance into this world was quick and fairly easy, once real labor ensued.  I was pleased at this occurrence… and then he began two hours of squalling.  The first hour was triggered by general indignation at his new environment.  The second hour seemed to be a reaction to the lights, once he finally opened his eyes.

Thus, I unknowingly had a portent of the first several years of his life.  All during that time, I was attempting to deal with sleep deprivation, postpartum depression, pregnancy, two moves, and more postpartum depression.  Brendon was having tummy troubles and sleep quirks, while being chronically cranky the first few months… then later we dealt with some health problems for both of us, as well as resulting issues.  It didn’t help my attitude that he liked his Daddy more than he liked me, although it makes sense to me now that Kevin was a welcome relief to both me and Brendon when he came home from work.

Over time, we learned to understand Brendon’s needs and sensitivities and see unique traits that his Creator instilled in his personality.  After that rough start it became apparent that though raising this determined little person wouldn’t always be easy, it would always be interesting.  Kevin used to say of him, “He takes notions.”  But I must say, that no matter what else was happening, I couldn’t have put in a custom order for a sweeter boy with a gentler spirit.

Now I can look back and see lessons I needed to learn about letting the Holy Spirit parent through me, rather than sticking to what I “knew” I should be doing.  I remember moments of clarity, realizing God’s feelings for me, as I simultaneously experienced exasperation and the most overwhelming love and protective instinct I’ve ever felt for another human.  I realized that there is grace enough to cover my shortcomings, and that I really don’t want to be my idea of a “perfect parent.”  I want to be the parent God wants me to be for each child in every specific area; and if that means apologizing to a child and praying together, it can be one of the best moments of your relationship.  If that means following an urge and going against convention to do what is best for your child, then watching God’s plan unfold will be worth any frustration involved and His strength will be made perfect in moments of human weakness.

It seems that the “hard” part of Brendon’s childhood has been over for some time.  Though I could say many things about him, of prime significance are his resourcefulness, creativity and dependability.  He is an observant, responsible young man with a sharp sense of humor.  His conscience seems to function pretty well.  I see maturity and spiritual growth in his life.  He’s an excellent helper in Children’s Church, and I regularly get good reports on him from adults in several other areas at church, from other parents when he’s visiting them, etc.  And one of my favorite things — he’s a great companion.

Having said all that, words fail me when I try to say how much I love him.

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May

4

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Some smiles I’ll share

A few weeks ago I received this letter; the end result of which, is that Kisa has two dog boys coming to visit her soon.  She would be ecstatic if she understood what we’ve been telling her about it, as she LOVES them.

Dear Aunt Tammi and Uncle Kevin,

Our Mommy and Daddy are going out of town _______ and they are not taking us with them. They said something about it being their 10th wedding anniversary blah, blah, blah… so we wanted to know if we could come stay at your house with Kisa for the weekend? We know Uncle Kevin will love all over us and let us sit on his lap all of the time so we figure your house is a good place to be. Even though Kisa scares us sometimes we know we would become happy cousins soon and Uncle Kevin will keep us safe. (Can you believe they found a place for Ashlynne and Jenna to go but not us – the outrage of it all!!)

Please let us know – we think it is simply horrible that Mommy and Daddy are leaving us behind.

Sincerely, Bentley and Charlie Culpepper

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Having slept most of the afternoon, Brendon was bored late Sunday night.  He took a series of “bored” pictures and made a photo album on Facebook.  Celeste wrote the following review and sent him some fan mail.

‘Just want to say I’m a big fan of the “Bored” series of photographs by up-and-comer Brendon Mossman.  His work has a style and pathos which is so true to the title.  I am especially moved by “Bored With a Chain.”  I eagerly await his next offering.’

:~p

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Apr

30

By Tammi

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Where we’re standing right now

In November, I posted this blog entry –

http://ktmossman.com/tryinglesstrustingmore/?p=59

Monday night, a week later, Kevin was conducting family devotions.  He asked us to consider what our answer would be if Jesus said we had two choices for 2010:

A. We could have any Christmas or birthday gifts we asked for; we’d have no arguments or unpleasantness with any friends or family; pretty much everything would go our way… but we wouldn’t get any closer to Him, we’d have no spiritual growth.

B. It might be a really tough year; trials and tribulations might abound, but no matter what happened, we were going to be much closer to Jesus at the end of it.

The next morning, the Tuesday before Thanksgiving week, Kevin lost his job.  My first thought was that God had already provided encouragement for me to strengthen my faith, when I found and posted that blog entry the previous week.

When we told the kids Kevin was unemployed, Brendon asked, “OK, who chose ‘B’ last night?!”  Everyone but him had chosen ‘B,’ and he never revealed his choice… I told him he might as well choose it, since he would have to come along on whatever ride the rest of us were taking.

In January we deduced that God wanted us to give a large percentage of any income, gifts, etc. that we received.  This amount is far beyond tithe, and more than we’ve ever consistently given before no matter our circumstances.  Finances/giving is the only area we see in Scripture where God dares us to try Him and see what He will do in return.

We were finished with any severance $$ in February.  Now, at the end of April, there is still no job for Kevin.  But as of this date, every regular bill, car payment, rent, etc. is current — because God has provided.  I’ll admit to wondering what His plan might be about May’s rent, but in a calm, conversational way, not in a “Lord, do you remember we’re down here?!” way.

Sometimes the words to a Larnelle Harris song goes through my mind.  “Children, lift your voices!  The Father hath provided again!”

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Apr

27

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A response to “supporting Healthcare Bill/preventing abortions”

(Note: On one of my huband’s blogs, a man wrote that he was a pro-life Christian.  He supported the healthcare bill because insurance was expensive; thus, a person not having healthcare might choose to have an abortion for $500, rather than having medical bills of thousands.  He ended his comments by saying “are Christians ready to put a price on a life?”)

D — I’m very pro-life. Abortion breaks my heart. I’ve worked in a pregnancy counseling center, and hope to do so again in the future. I’ve worn the tiny unborn feet pin. And I can’t agree with your statements.

The choice to have an abortion ultimately is between a woman and God, whether it stems from a moral choice/consequence or a decision to terminate a handicapped infant because they don’t think they can raise it.  A person facing that decision has options. Organizations offer aid in unwed mother, and other, scenarios; People are wanting to adopt unwanted children, just for two examples. Even if we were talking about one of your own children in such a situation, all your prayers, preventive teaching and offers to help would not necessarily stop them from making a decision with which you don’t agree.

Your reasoning seems very much to me like the decision to hand kids condoms in school because they’re going to have sex anyway, and “we” need to try and prevent STDs and unwanted pregnancies. Whereas, statistics show that teaching abstinence will be the far more effective course, especially in conjunction with parents knowing where their children are/who they’re with, and having boundaries as well as keeping communication lines open (you know, like actually parenting!).

To say that overlooking bigger government making more demands and violating more rights of millions of people — including said government not recognizing the rights of the unborn — is worth the price to save one baby… you do know that the government you’re supporting on the healthcare issue is the same one that legalized abortion, right? Asking WWJD in this situation, I don’t think He’d support that government’s healthcare bill to try and save one life.  He knows those lives are going straight to Heaven; whereas, the ones still living here are going to be praying for His quick return as our freedoms are revoked in the coming Socialist makeover of our country.

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Apr

2

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Good news for the week

I now have my own “production” line of jewelry.  This is in addition to other custom orders and jewelry I was already selling online or giving to friends.  I received a $250 order this week with more to follow from a friend’s aunt, and she’s showing my samples and price list to other Mary Kay managers.

http://www.etsy.com/shop/mybeadsandbooks?section_id=6753014

This equals a very :~) me!

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Mar

13

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Quiet time, worship time, “being still” time…

If you needed cash, and there was a positive balance in your bank account, would you stand and stare at the ATM machine, reluctant to touch it?  Would you walk around it several times, hum and act like you had money in your pocket already and didn’t really need to be there?  Would you drive past, but think better of it, then go to the store… drive past, then go sit in the parking lot instead of getting your cash…

Of course not, unless you have some problems you don’t want to discuss!  But you could have a similar scenario in your spiritual life.  Sometimes I do… and while I’m thankful that it happens less often with maturity, I wish it didn’t happen at all.

Calm, comfort, joy, peace, quiet… are just outside my situation and vision, and all I have to do is access them.  But for whatever reason, I put it off.  I “handle” things awhile longer.  I smile on the outside, while my heart is full of anxiety and my brain is rapidly calculating various plans that will probably fail.

I know better — you probably do, as well.  But then, seemingly out of nowhere, it’s happening again… and we’re pretty sure we aren’t stupid.

Maybe this situation falls under the category of  “sin that so easily besets us.”

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Feb

27

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The Spoon Theory

This is the best thing I’ve ever read for explaining what it’s like to live with a chronic illness involving fatigue:

http://www.butyoudontlooksick.com/wpress/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/BYDLS-TheSpoonTheory.pdf

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Feb

18

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Romance Realized

“New moon, true moon, trusty, tell me who my true love must be; the color of his eyes, the color of his hair, and the everyday clothes that he used to wear.”

Put a piece of wedding cake underneath your pillow, chant the above, then lay down to sleep… you’ll dream of the man you’re to marry.  That’s what my teenaged great-grandmother and her friends were told; and much excited, they tried it.

Martha dreamed she was walking along a dirt road and saw a man in a field with his horse and plow.  He was dressed a particular way… an outfit she recognized when she first saw him a few months later.  He had just moved into the area and begun to farm.  Soon after, he needed a housekeeper, and she was hired for the job.  It wasn’t long before they fancied one another and decided to set a wedding date.  The dream and the outcome was the most romantic real story I ever heard as a child.

Five children, fourteen grandchildren and scads of great-grandchildren were the result of their union.  Real life turned out to have little romance, however.  Alfred had a horrible temper, tales of which were still told thirty years after his death.  He and Martha grew estranged, and if she ever knew about the “other child” he fathered, she never mentioned it.  (Her children didn’t find out until they were very old, when their surprise half-brother came looking for a picture of his father.)

She outlived him by several decades, and had some time for a more peaceful life.  I don’t recall ever hearing loving words about him, only details of memorable incidents, including physical abuse.  No talk of missing him, no emphasis on positive, lasting traits passed down from his side; whereas, my main memory of her was seeing her big black Bible in her lap every morning, even when her fingers were so stiff she needed help to turn the pages.

I don’t know at what point she accepted Christ into her life.  Was she a Christian as a child, but only accepted Jesus as the lover of her soul through life’s disappointments?  Did she recognize the significance of His love for her right away, or did she learn to depend on it over time?  Whatever the details of her journey, she made her relationship with her True Love a priority, influencing lives down through her offspring, creating memories and lessons as pieces of a godly heritage.

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Feb

8

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This leaves me speechless


Marine SSgt Dan Clay was killed in Iraq on December 1, 2005.  The letter he left with his father, to be opened in the event of his death, can be found here –

http://www.freerepublic.com/focus/f-chat/1544551/posts


“This letter being read means that I have been deemed worthy of being with Christ.”

“It has been an Honor to protect and serve all of you. I faced death with the secure knowledge that you would not have to. This is as close to Christ-like I can be. That emulation is where all honor lies.”

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Jan

31

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New Starfield Single

The new single is called “Rediscover You,” and it’s from the album to be released sometime in February.  I’ve loaded it onto the blog mp3 widget  for your listening pleasure…

Have a good week,

:~)

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I need to just admit
my faith is paper thin
I’m feeling so burned out
On religion

I say an empty prayer
I sing a tired song
I need to just admit that the passion’s gone

And I want to get it back

You told me
Look for You and I will find
So I’m here
Like I’m searching for the first time
Revive me, Jesus
Make this cold heart start to move
Help me rediscover You

I want to learn to pray
The way that David prayed
I want my soul to burn when I hear Your name
I want to feel like new
I want to hunger for you
Bring me back to life like only You can do
Cause I don’t want to stay the same

You told me
Look for You and I will find
So I’m here
Like I’m searching for the first time
Revive me, Jesus
Make this cold heart start to move
Help me rediscover You

Lord, I want to be Yours today
I want to know the passion of the saints
And how they were changed

You told me
Look for You and I will find
So I’m here
Like I’m searching for the first time
Revive me, Jesus
Make this cold heart start to move

I want to burn for You
Bring me back to life, Jesus
Help me rediscover You

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Jan

30

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A Ponderment

During childhood, I was in some churches that talked about the Christian life like it was a vale of tears, a cross to bear for all of life.  We were constantly reminded that we were sinful.  I’ve since known some people who lived with that mindset, who were so “holy” and full of works, literally striving for righteousness through outward means, that they weren’t enjoying the blessings God had placed in their lives.

How is it beneficial to dwell on sin?  We’re supposed to count our blessings, not our shortcomings.  We’re to turn things over to the Lord, heed the promptings of the Holy Spirit, and let Him do the work in us while we joyfully follow the stepping-stones of growth He has set before us.

“Except the Lord build the house, they labor in vain who build it,” so what does it profit me to search myself constantly for weeds to pluck?  If God isn’t prompting their removal, they’ll probably grow right back.  (And next time, they might have thorns!)

I’m not saying we shouldn’t ever examine our hearts; merely, that it shouldn’t be our focus.  “Me” isn’t necessarily supposed to be the motivation for change.  Our eyes are to be fixed on Jesus, our ears attuned to the Holy Spirit, our hearts receiving words from the Father about our worth in His eyes.

We were born with a sin nature — but we have since been redeemed, bought with a great price.  I’m not a “lowly worm” of a person, I’m a Princess in an almighty kingdom.  You aren’t a mess of contradictions with so many problems you’ll never get them all sorted out, you’re a worthy work in progress.  Where God doesn’t see fit to change or remove something in you, the Holy Spirit will change your mindset about that area to acceptance, possibly even to gratitude.

You are His work, not your own project.  “He who began a good work in you will be faithful to complete it.”

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Jan

29

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Indicating Intelligence-malfunction

Several of my great-uncles used phrases like these all the time — not because they felt superior, but because they were incurable teases and there were several familial “good targets.”

Can you add to the list?

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A taco short of a combination plate

Not the brightest bulb in the marquee

A few dimes short of a dollar

Not the sharpest crayon in the box

Not the sharpest tool in the shed

A few bricks short of a load

A few peas short of a casserole

The lights are on, but nobody is home

A few sandwiches short of a picnic

A few olives short of a martini

A few fries short of a happy meal

The elevator doesn’t go all the way up

Not the brightest bulb in the chandelier

Ain’t enough chlorine in that gene pool

Too bad the gene pool doesn’t have lifeguards

Sharp as a marble

The wheel is turning but the hamster is dead

Doesn’t have both oars in the water

A few Bradys short of a bunch

The gates are down, the lights are flashing, but the train isn’t coming

Fell out of the stupid tree and hit every branch on the way down

Another brain would be lonely

If you stand close enough to them you can hear the sea

Not the quickest bunny in the forest

If you gave them a penny for thoughts, you’d get change

The driveway doesn’t quite reach the road

Couldn’t pour water out of a boot with instructions on the heel

Not playing with a full deck

If brains were dynamite, he wouldn’t have enough to blow his nose

A mind is a terrible thing to waste — good to know she’s saving hers

He’s a butter knife in a steak world

A few clowns short of a circus

Has a natural talent for finding subliminal messages in ice cubes

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Jan

23

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Categories: Children, Counting My Blessings, Faith, Parenting

Our someday daughter

We’ve always been open to the idea of having another child by adoption, and I realized the other night that it’s time. Kevin feels the same, and has surprised me with some of his anticipatory comments and enthusiasm. I even pointed out that if we do this, we will put off by 6-10 years the Empty Nest Syndrome that I’m dreading and HE’s anticipating, and he just laughed.

We’re agreed on a girl, and Kevin asked what ages we were thinking because he doesn’t want to do diapers again.  I said optimally 1-4 yrs, and of course depending on how old she is when we’re matched, she could be 5 or 6 when she joins our family.  I would prefer less culture-shock and adjustment to a new family for her, so the younger the better in that regard.  I’m open to a pair of siblings so they wouldn’t be separated — but if that came up in the process, we’d have to be in agreement.

So, we’re planning to adopt from Haiti.  We’re both researching and reading, and one grandma, four aunts and many friends are already joining us in praying over her. Please add some prayers of your own. ;)

I haven’t been able to get to sleep easily for several nights because I can’t concentrate on my book for thinking of her and praying.  Aislynn has mentioned before that she really wished she had a sister, but when I told her it could be a reality and to ask the Lord, she was very excited. She’s planning how she’ll share her room, and wants to appropriate Brendon’s bunk beds.

We’re going to try to get on a fostering list ASAP, with adoption later on if our child’s orphan status can be verified.  With the mass graves in Haiti and no time for identification of bodies, who knows how long the Haitian government will wait for adoption approval.  That will be one more area to trust God and watch Him at work.

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Jan

21

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Really old coffee advertisement

From the Public Advisor (England, 1657):

“In Bartholomew Lane on the back side of the Old Exchange, the drink called ‘Coffee’ is for sale.  It is a very wholesome and physical drink, having many excellent virtues, closes the orifice of the stomach, fortifies the heat within, helpeth digestion, quickens the spirits, maketh the heart lightsome, is good against eyesores, coughs or colds, rhumes, consumption, headache, dropsy, gout, scurvy, Kings evil, and many others.  Is to be sold both in the morning and at three o’clock in the afternoon.”

If only even half of that were true.

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Jan

20

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Franklin’s worldview

Benjamin Franklin’s parents not only attended church with their family, but also advocated Puritan values.  These were derived from the Bible and practiced in front of him during childhood.  I think this foundation planted the seeds of a Christian worldview into his growing young mind, and he then put the same values into practice throughout his own life.

As an adult, Franklin rejected many Christian doctrines with which he was raised, including doubting the divinity of Christ.  He became a Deist, believing that truth can be found entirely through nature and reason.  He did, however, retain his faith in God, and this is evidenced many times in both his speech and writing.  In later years, he stated in his autobiography, “I never was without some religious principles.  I never doubted, for instance, the existence of the Deity;  that He made the world, and governed it by His providence; that the most acceptable service of God was the doing good to man; that our souls are immortal; and that all crime will be punished, and virtue rewarded, either here or hereafter.”

Many, if not most, of the founding fathers believed to some extent as Franklin did.  Judeo-Christian values are evidenced not only in their personal correspondence and other writing, but also in their eventual drafting of important national documents.  I don’t think it came as a surprise to any when Franklin advocated the institution of daily prayer for the members of the Constitutional Convention.

During his appeal, he reminded them of previous prayers and the answers that were “graciously” given.  He then said, “…the longer I live, the more convincing proofs I see of this truth — that God Governs in the affairs of men.”  He alluded to Psalm 127:1, Matthew 10:29 and James 1:17, and concluded that the Lord’s blessings should be sought each morning before deliberations began.

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Constitutional Convention Address on Prayer

delivered by Benjamin Franklin on June 28, 1787, Philadelphia, PA

Mr. President:

The small progress we have made after four or five weeks close attendance & continual reasonings with each other — our different sentiments on almost every question, several of the last producing as many noes as ays, is methinks a melancholy proof of the imperfection of the Human Understanding. We indeed seem to feel our own wont of political wisdom, since we have been running about in search of it. We have gone back to ancient history for models of government, and examined the different forms of those Republics which having been formed with the seeds of their own dissolution now no longer exist. And we have viewed Modern States all round Europe, but find none of their  Constitutions suitable to our circumstances.

In this situation of this Assembly groping as it were in the dark to find political truth, and scarce able to distinguish it when to us, how has it happened, Sir, that we have not hitherto once thought of humbly applying to the Father of lights to illuminate our understandings? In the beginning of the contest with G. Britain, when we were sensible of danger we had daily prayer in this room for the Divine Protection. — Our prayers, Sir, were heard, and they were graciously answered. All of us who were engaged in the struggle must have observed frequent instances of a Superintending providence in our favor. To that kind providence we owe this happy opportunity of consulting in peace on the means of establishing our future national felicity. And have we now forgotten that powerful friend? or do we imagine that we no longer need His assistance.

I have lived, Sir, a long time and the longer I live, the more convincing proofs I see of this truth — that God governs in the affairs of men. And if a sparrow cannot fall to the ground without his notice, is it probable that an empire can rise without his aid? We have been assured, Sir, in the sacred writings that “except the Lord build they labor in vain that build it.” I firmly believe this; and I also believe that without his concurring aid we shall succeed in this political building no better than the Builders of Babel: We shall be divided by our little partial local interests; our projects will be confounded, and we ourselves shall be become a reproach and a bye word down to future age. And what is worse, mankind may hereafter this unfortunate instance, despair of establishing Governments by Human Wisdom, and leave it to chance, war, and conquest.

I therefore beg leave to move — that henceforth prayers imploring the assistance of Heaven, and its blessings on our deliberations, be held in this Assembly every morning before we proceed to business, and that one or more of the Clergy of this City be requested to officiate in that service.

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Amazing Home Remedies

*A mouse trap, placed on top of your alarm clock, will prevent you from rolling over and going back to sleep after you hit the snooze button.

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*If you have a bad cough, take a large dose of laxatives, then you will be afraid to cough.

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*Clumsy? Avoid cutting yourself while slicing vegetables by getting someone else to hold them while you chop away.

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HA! Some of you thought I was going to start talking about garlic… but that’s another post.

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Of Such is the Kingdom of Heaven

Life-happenings, sick kids, extended family surprises/issues… stressful thoughts had my spirit in an uproar. Then I walked through the living room and heard Junior Asparagus singing “Your love was with me all throughout my day.” All other thoughts stopped, as I wondered what signs of God’s presence I’d missed that morning.

When the kids dispersed, I re-wound that part of the video so I could quietly listen again. I remembered other times VeggieTales has blessed me, besides the obvious benefits in my children’s lives.

Songs came to mind; of Annie, the scallion, singing “a thankful heart is a happy heart” to Madame Blueberry… of Junior playing an Israelite boy, reminding Joshua “we know that He will take care of us, if we will follow Him.” I thought of Jesus saying “I praise you, Father, Lord of heaven and earth, because you have hidden these things from the wise and learned, and revealed them to little children.”

Of the songs I love from the series, my favorites are sung by children, pointing to a principle, often reminding an adult about something important. It’s so easy to make lives, ministries and relationships more complicated than they need to be. But always there is a choice about attitude and approach — whether to be “wise in our own eyes” and do things in what we think is a mature fashion, or to become as little children in our Father’s eyes.

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Eeeeewww!

*We saw this guy on a Food Network special.  While interesting, the germ factor is mind-boggling… and of course my children want some of the kits — http://www.chewbynumbers.com/.  I forbade them.

**Jelly Belly has a ten-flavor sampler of jelly beans called Bertie Bott’s Every Flavor Beans, marketed only in the U.S. and Canada.  The delectable flavors not available to the rest of the world — Dirt, Vomit, Rotten Egg, Pickle, Sausage, Ear Wax, Earthworm, Soap,  Black Pepper, and Booger.

I can tell you that Pickle, Pepper and Sausage taste interestingly like you’d think they should, but I wouldn’t eat them again.  Dirt, Earwax, Earthworm and Soap aren’t too bad, but I wouldn’t eat them again.  Rotten Egg is really icky.  I wouldn’t try Vomit or Booger… not that I think I’d be recommending them if I had.

***For those of you trying to take a more organic approach to nutrition, here are some “tasty insect recipes” – http://www.ent.iastate.edu/misc/insectsasfood.htmlI haven’t tried them.

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I guess this makes me one of the 97%

Prologue: Pardon my sarcasm.  I took much of it out, and toned down the rest.

I’ve been seeing them in e-mails for years.  Now they’re popping up on Facebook — the entreaties to wave a flag for the fan club of Jesus.  I’m sure they make some people feel good, and they might even bring God to remembrance in the life of someone who needs Him.  But, could you delete the manipulative phrases before passing something along?  How about considering whether something could, in fact, be considered using the Lord’s name “in vain” from some perspectives?  How about being thoughtful, perhaps even original, in representing your beliefs?

“If you aren’t ashamed of Christ” then you must forward this email.  It’s certain to touch the heart of someone if they can read all the way through the garbled snippets of Scripture and personal opinions, and look past the broken image boxes to the glittery, flashing rainbow picture that finally shows at the bottom of the page.  (Yes, the run-on sentence was intentional!)

“Only 3% of the Christians on Facebook will repost this as their status.”   Where the heck did they come up with that number?  So this one begins with a statistical fabrication.  That’s NWJWD, Not What Jesus Would Do.

“If you truly love the Lord” then re-post this as your status update.  Somehow, it’s supposed to be sharing with people who do NOT love Him.  (Annoyance, now there’s a time-worn witnessing approach for you!)  And I’m sure it will warm the cockles of the Lord’s heart, especially if you haven’t yet spoken to Him in person today.

“If you’re willing to stand up and be counted for Jesus,” then this requires some visible action on your part, because people can’t see your heart.  Oh, yes they can, through your service prompted by love and obedience… when you give to their physical needs, when you carpool their kids to VBS or help them with a ride from school, when you stop what you’re doing to pray with someone, when you don’t know much about a person but the Holy Spirit tells you to hug them right now…

Even online, they can see.   Your choice of words, your choice of action vs. reaction, your words of encouragement visible on another person’s page — all show snippets of your character, your heart and your beliefs.  When you post a Scripture that touched you, when you type in public that you’re praying for someone, when a typed comment testifies to a grateful heart…

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Happy New Year

People are often unreasonable, illogical, and self-centered; Forgive them anyway.

If you are kind, people may accuse you of selfish, ulterior motives; Be kind anyway.

If you are successful, you will win some false friends and some true enemies; Succeed anyway.

If you are honest and frank, people may cheat you; Be honest and frank anyway.

What you spend years building, someone could destroy overnight; Build anyway.

If you find serenity and happiness, they may be jealous; Be happy anyway.

The good you do today, people will often forget tomorrow; Do good anyway.

Give the world the best you have, and it may never be enough; Give the world the best you’ve got anyway.

You see, in the final analysis, it is between you and God; It was never between you and them anyway.  ~ Mother Teresa

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