We’ve always been open to the idea of having another child by adoption, and I realized the other night that it’s time. Kevin feels the same, and has surprised me with some of his anticipatory comments and enthusiasm. I even pointed out that if we do this, we will put off by 6-10 years the Empty Nest Syndrome that I’m dreading and HE’s anticipating, and he just laughed.
We’re agreed on a girl, and Kevin asked what ages we were thinking because he doesn’t want to do diapers again. I said optimally 1-4 yrs, and of course depending on how old she is when we’re matched, she could be 5 or 6 when she joins our family. I would prefer less culture-shock and adjustment to a new family for her, so the younger the better in that regard. I’m open to a pair of siblings so they wouldn’t be separated — but if that came up in the process, we’d have to be in agreement.
So, we’re planning to adopt from Haiti. We’re both researching and reading, and one grandma, four aunts and many friends are already joining us in praying over her. Please add some prayers of your own. 
I haven’t been able to get to sleep easily for several nights because I can’t concentrate on my book for thinking of her and praying. Aislynn has mentioned before that she really wished she had a sister, but when I told her it could be a reality and to ask the Lord, she was very excited. She’s planning how she’ll share her room, and wants to appropriate Brendon’s bunk beds.
We’re going to try to get on a fostering list ASAP, with adoption later on if our child’s orphan status can be verified. With the mass graves in Haiti and no time for identification of bodies, who knows how long the Haitian government will wait for adoption approval. That will be one more area to trust God and watch Him at work.
Copyright 2010 by Tammi Mossman.
Awesome, Tammi. I think that is a beautiful thing. Now THAT’s the kind of compassion I can support!
Wow, this a wonderful opportunity for you and Kevin. You have our prayers and support. Now I’m excited for you!
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Tammi, It gives me goose bumps just thinking about it. I completely understand how you would lie awake at night not being able to concentrate on a book. What a wonderful thing for you guys to do, and what a joy to have another small one (or two) to love. I’ll be praying too.
How excited I am for you! Sharon and I will be praying. Remember Rom.8:15-16, “You received the spirit of adoption…the spirit Himself bears witness that we are children of God.”
Your friend in Christ, Lisa
Awsome!!! I will join you guys in praying about that. That’s cool news. The Haitian situation, God has really used to touch my heart as well!!! I can’t wait to see how it turns out for you guys as well as in my own life!
Love,
~Andrew~
How wonderful! We are praying for your family and the new addition(s). Please keep us posted.
In Christ, Cindy
I think that is a wonderful idea. Ron & I will definetly be praying.One or two little ones would really be blessed to have you and Kevin as parents.
What a blessing you will be to whatever little girl God picks for you! I will pray that everything goes smooth and swift.
We’ll be praying! God bless.
Tammi –
While reading this, I was remembering in VIVID detail all of our emotions and experiences as we went through the same process. The excitement, bringing it up to the other two kids, their excitement and questions. The process, oh my, the PROCESS! The nail biting, the excitement, the paperwork, the lawyers, asking God, “which child, is this the one?” Having that perfect sense of ease and security knowing “This is to be our child!”
The culmination of adopting 4 terrific children over a 4 year time period and seeing what we have today. Everything is a blessing!
I’m excited for you both and somewhat envious too. What a wonderful experience you will soon have. I’ll be praying for you both as you follow God’s leading!
I am anxiously awaiting more grandchildren!